Day 229: Christian Funerals (1680-1690)

• It’s Day 229!!

• ARTICLE 2: CHRISTIAN FUNERALS

• THE CHRISTIAN’S LAST PASSOVER

• THE CELEBRATION OF FUNERALS

• Remember, the sacraments are God’s work

• We get to participate in God’s work

• The sacraments touch every aspect of our lives

• Birth

• Healing and sickness

• Marriage 

• Death

• Some of us, through no fault of our own, do not know the significance and importance of Christian funerals

• Let’s pray!!

Prayer by Fr. Mike: “Father in Heaven, we give you praise and glory and thank you. Thank you for bringing us to this day. Thank you for walking with us and leading us, by the guidance of your Church, through what we believe, through how we worship. Thank you for showing us the ways in which you want to be part of our lives. You want to transform our lives through your sacraments. And you do transform our lives through your sacraments. We come into contact with you and you come into contact with us through your sacraments. Thank you for your Holy Spirit that makes actual what Jesus made possible. We thank you for this moment, we thank you for this opportunity today to learn about what every one of us will encounter in death. We ask you to please, help us to have minds and hearts that are open to participating in the funerals of those in our parishes, those in our families, those who are dear to us. And help us to understand the significance of life, the significance of death, the significance of eternal life, and how the funeral plays into all of that. We make this prayer in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen”

• So there we have it!!

• Paragraph 1680 says, “All the sacraments, and principally those of Christian initiation, have as their goal the last Passover of the child of God which, through death, leads him into the life of the Kingdom.”

• THAT IS AMAZING!!

• It is not a shock for all of us who know Scripture and who know what Baptism is

• St. Paul said, “Those of you who are baptized in his life are baptized into his death.”

• It was through Baptism into death that we actually share and participate in God’s Eternal Life

• The sacraments of Christian initiation are oriented towards reminding us and participating in the death of Christ so that we can participate in the Resurrection of Jesus

• Let’s listen to Fr. Mike’s story about his nephew, Max, and his niece, Molly…

• We bear the Sign of the Cross on our foreheads from early on in our lives when we were Baptized

• We bear that Sign of the Cross through the rest of our lives into Eternal Life

• Remember, the Cross is the symbol of death

• The Cross is a symbol of destruction

• The Cross is the capital punishment of Jesus

• The Cross is the execution of Jesus

• The Cross is a sign of suffering

• The Cross is a sign of sin

• The Cross is a sign of brokenness

• BUT…

• The Cross has been TRANSFORMED into being a sign of HOPE

• We are marked with the Sign of the Cross in the sacraments

• We are marked by the death of Jesus in the sacraments

• Our lives are going to be marked by death

• Our lives are going to be marked by suffering

• Our lives are going to be marked by pain and sickness

• Our lives will be marked by struggle

• So when we are marked with the Sign of the Cross, it is not just the sign of struggle, or the sign of sin

• It is the sign of HOPE 

• Here is how Jesus embraced His Cross

• Jesus was conquered by His Cross and then He conquered His Cross

• Jesus was conquered by His Cross and led to His death

• BUT…

• Then He conquered death and was raised to life

• Everything we do is oriented towards that last moment

• Everything we do is oriented towards that moment we step from this life into Eternal Life

• Paragraph 1680 continues, “Then what he confessed in faith and hope will be fulfilled: ‘I look forward to the resurrection of the dead and the life of the world to come.’”

• Do we actually look forward to this?

• That is the big question

• Do we truly look forward not only to the resurrection of the dead, where all the dead will rise, but do we look forward to the moment of our own deaths?

• In order to rise from the dead, we have to die

• Do we look forward to that?

• The real meaning of Christian death is revealed in the light of the Paschal Mystery of the death and Resurrection of Jesus

• The Christian meaning of death is revealed when we look at how Jesus died

• Yes, it was marked by grief and struggle

• Jesus sweat blood in the Garden of Gethsemane

• Jesus says, “Father, take this cup from me.”

• It’s not a matter of being impassive or stoic in the face of death

• Jesus is fully alive and even He didn’t want to die

• BUT…

• Jesus embraced His Cross with FAITH AND TRUST in His Father 

• Jesus was led through that embrace, that suffering, that Cross, into death, past death, through death, into life

• This is the Christian meaning of death

• This is one of the reasons this last section is all about funerals

• One of the things that too many of us forget is that we think that the funeral is like a celebration of life

• Fr. Mike is talking about his mom now…try not to cry…

• The funeral Mass is not a celebration of life

• We are celebrating the Mass to offer the sacrifice of the Eucharist to the Father in the Son by the Power of the Holy Spirit for the purification and the sake of the person who died

• Paragraph 1688 says, “The homily in particular must ‘avoid the literary genre of funeral eulogy’ and illumine the mystery of Christian death in the light of the risen Christ.”

• It’s not about what the person did in their life and all their successes etc.

• The homily invites the congregation to pray on behalf of the person who is in the casket

• THAT IS THE REALITY!!

• It is one of the reasons why the funeral Mass is so important

• Most likely, the person who has passed away NEEDS OUR PRAYERS

• Most likely, the person whose funeral it is, even if they died in friendship with the Lord, in a state of grace, they will still need the Mass to be offered up for them for that purification of the consequences of their sins

• IN FACT…

• Paragraph 1689 says, “In the Eucharist, the Church expresses her efficacious communion with the departed: offering to the Father in the Holy Spirit the sacrifice of the death and resurrection of Christ, she asks to purify his child of his sins and their consequences, and to admit him to the Paschal fullness of the table of the Kingdom.”

• IT IS SO SO VITAL!!

• That’s one of the reasons why not only is it important to be at the funeral Mass, to offer up that sacrifice, but it is also important to ask for masses to be offered on behalf of the dead

• We have an intention for each Mass

• If you have someone you love who has passed away, contact your parish and ask if a Mass could be offered or even multiple masses could be offered for the sake of their soul

• We can’t stop death

• There is nothing we can do

• It is easy to feel incredibly powerless

• BUT…

• As Catholics, we are not powerless

• WE CAN STILL PRAY!!

• We can pray Rosaries for the dead

• We can pray the Chaplet of Divine Mercy for the dead

• We can pray the Stations of the Cross for the dead

• We can have Mass offered for the dead

• That is an incredibly efficacious way to help them especially when we feel powerless in the face of death

• Or maybe there was a lack of reconciliation with that person that died

• Maybe we didn’t love them well when they were alive

• We can have a lot of regret and remorse for that 

• That is normal

• BUT…

• We can also translate that and transform that into PRAYER

• We can transform that into DOING SOMETHING

• We can love them well NOW by having the Mass offered for them

• We can love them well NOW by offering the Rosary for them

• We can love them well NOW by offering all those other sacramentals and devotions on their behalf 

• WE ARE NOT EVER POWERLESS!!

• The funeral rites given to us by the Church are a sign of God’s power

• We get to participate in His power

• Paragraph 1685 says, “The different funeral rites express the Paschal character of Christian death and are in keeping with the situations and traditions of each region, even as to the color of the liturgical vestments worn.”

• Black or white vestments can be worn at a funeral

• Fr. Mike’s mom wanted black vestments to be worn to remind everyone to pray for her

• Funerals are not a celebration of life

• They are a PRAYER

• We offer worship to the Father on behalf of the soul of the one who has died

• In some cultures in Asia, white is the color of mourning

• One of the Corporal Works of Mercy is to bury the dead

• This goes back to the Book of Tobit

• Even though he was exiled away from the Promised Land in Assyria, he could still bury his dead brothers and sisters in Judaism

• Those people who serve the Church by the ministry of taking care of the dead…

• Those people in parishes who put on the funeral lunch or serve at funeral Mass…

• They are the people who accompany the family or even work in funeral homes

• They are all doing a great act, a great work of charity, a work of mercy

• We get to be part of that too every time we pray for the dead

• We do this with HOPE

• Yes, our hearts can be broken

• BUT…

• WE DO THIS WITH HOPE!!

• St. Simeon of Thessalonica says in Paragraph 1690, “By this final greeting ‘we sing for his departure from this life and separation from us, but also because there is a communion and a reunion. For even dead, we are not at all separated from one another, because we all run the same course and we will find one another again in the same place. We shall never be separated, for we live for Christ, and now we are united with Christ as we go toward him…we shall all be together in Christ.’”

• That can be such a powerful moment

• We know this person is dead, but as we walk away, their body is lowered into the Earth

• There is the goodbye at death

• In the Holy Sacrifice of the Eucharist and the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass, we are participating in the great worship of Heaven and our loved ones who are in Heaven, God willing

• We get to participate in the exact same event, just in different ways

• We see each other in the Eucharist

• Whether in this life and we are just separated

• OR…

• In this life and the next

• WE WILL ALWAYS SEE EACH OTHER IN THE EUCHARIST!!

• Fr. Mike is praying FOR YOU!!

• Please pray for Fr. Mike and for each other!!

• I cannot WAIT to see you tomorrow!!